Nine Ways to Unhook your way to a new flight plan
The “hook” always belongs to you never them. The trick is to realize you’ve been hooked and “unhook” yourself. We all do it! We get caught in needing to be right or feeling mistreated and wanting to defend ourselves, but when we can recognize this and unhook ourselves that’s when we really have the freedom to free ourselves and move on to a flight plan.
9 things you can do right now to take the hook out of yourself and fly free
1. Giving a care about what others think
When you care too much about what others say about you good or bad, you live your life for them and not yourself. If you are basing your self-worth on their opinions of you whether they are good or bad, you are gauging how you feel about yourself by someone else. The truth is how people judge your journey is really about their journey never yours. Let go of people who rob you of your peace, especially yourself
2. Feeling a need to be right all the time and constantly defending yourself.
In the end it’s between you and spirit, never them! You always know in your heart what your intent and integrity was in any situation, so find peace in the knowing that you don’t need to prove anything to anyone.
3.The gremlins in your head insisting that you be perfect.
As “Ronny Cammareri” says in the movie “Moonstruck”, “We aren’t here to make things perfect. The snowflakes are perfect. The stars are perfect. Not us. Not us! We are here to ruin ourselves and to break our hearts!”… We are spiritual beings having a human experience in a flesh suit, riding a rock that is hurtling through space. That’s a miracle enough for one lifetime don’t ya think?
4. Giving a care about Past mistakes
Every single “mistake” you made got you to where you are right now… you’ve been through some major shit. Name it, claim it and recognize how far you’ve come. Honor every stone in the road and let them go! You won’t need them where you are headed, it’s easier to fly with those gorgeous earth angel wings when you are not weighted down.
5. A hook is a hook is a hook
My theory is 1 out of roughly every 8 situations in your life, be it people, situations or your own self- defeating doubts, are going to show up to test your spiritual fortitude. They reflect back to you your kindness, goodwill and compassion. This is spirit showing up to let you see how far you’ve come and how far you have to go. Honor the baby steps.
6. Wondering about “What ifs”
That which truly belongs to you can never pass you by trust that spirit is conspiring for you in all situations in your life and that it is also divinely protecting you. Some things we wish happened in our lives and not receiving them were actually blessings in disguise, they put us on a more empowered path on our earth angel journey.
7.Worrying about the future.
The only moment we can control how we react and behave is RIGHT NOW. When you are worried about the future you are not only robbing yourself of your peace of mind in the now, you are also creating everything in a “pool of anxiety!” Stay in your heart space and love yourself through everything that’s where the “future” juicy bits are created.
8. Forgive everything
Forgive everyone and everything including yourself. People are going to break your heart it happens to everyone at one time or another. Remember the lesson and leave the rest behind. You can’t change the past but don’t let the past rob you of your current happiness. You are worthy of living a peaceful and fulfilling life and letting that shit go.
9. Love yourself through everything.
Trust me, loving yourself through everything isn’t easy but the rewards are immeasurable. You are the only “you” living in your flesh-suit. Honor you in all ways, always. Bring yourself back to your heart space every time you feel a hook gently and lovingly unhook yourself treat yourself like you would a small child. Unlearning everything that never belonged to you is a process and healing and peeling takes time. The more layers you heal away the more healthy self-worthy loving layers grow. We are all works in progress that’s why we are “here”, you’ve already arrived… the trick is to love yourself through everything so you can thrive in this life!
Meaning of the phrase “off the hook”: When you are freed from an obligation “On the hook” – caught in a difficult or dangerous situation.
Elizabeth Lindsay is proud to announce that she is now working as a clairvoyant spiritual light-warrior and counselor at www.12listen.com Elizabeth Lindsay is a creative soul whose life journey and passion has evolved into helping others empower themselves. Elizabeth has the innate ability to tune in and tap into your spirit guides and energy to offer clear concise answers and tools that give you a fresh perspective as well as raise your vibration. Elizabeth’s goal is to always help you get unstuck, move forward and leave her company feeling confident in the knowing that you are honoring yourself and your soul’s growth. Be it a need for clearing a vibrational blockage, a quick answer, or an in-depth dive into the realms of possibilities she will help guide you into your personal power and strength.
